Okay Pep! Lets Talk.
Is there anyone in your life who makes you feel special?
If you do have someone like that then feel special but What if suddenly that one person start's ignoring you without any cause then what?
No text, No call, Nothing.
How you feel about that? Its horrifying, Right?
Wrong!!!!
You kids has been played by a person who believes in psychology & Kids, trust me usually people breakdown.
once something like this happens in life and People starts crying or starts thinking, whats wrong they have done that the one of most important person in their life starts ignoring Them without a cause.
You try to contact that person but they would not return your contacts.
You start going in depression and starts thinking how can you get that person back in your life.
For example as a kid if you like a teddy bear that you have and you consider that teddy as your best buddy that teddy makes you feel special but suddenly due to some reason your parents took that teddy from you so what happen next, you start to plan how can you get that teddy back. Its not like you don't have other toys or you're in love with your teddy, You're habitual to that teddy, like a smoker is habitual to cigarettes.
Here my point is
"do you really need that teddy to feel special?."
Simple and real answer to the above question is NO, you don't want or need a teddy to feel special. You are special and same thing goes with "Chetan Bhagats Rule of ignorance"
first someone would make you feel special and suddenly they go away from your life to generate a necessity that you need them around, you need them again to feel special, You want them so badly that you do anything.
You'd cry, you'd beg & you'll lose all of your "SELF RESPECT"
You'd be a changed person but here is the million dollar question
"is it really worthy to lose all of your self respect & everything just for one person?."
Who really don't care about your tears or about you!
there are so many other beautiful people in your life for whom you're so much special and to make you happy they'll do anything like your family, your Friends, Your Part time lovers who have crush on you.
So Ladies & Gentleman incase if you face something like this in future here is the CRACK of this solution:
"IGNORE THE PERSON WHO IGNORE'S YOU"
If you start ignoring the person, Who's ignoring you. it will force them to start thinking that you really don't care about their presence in your life which again according to human psychology will force them to talk to you!
Trust me! I'm 100% sure they'll be back to talk to you with the most stupid question "why are you not talking to me?"
In any relationship one person dominate and other just follow the rules.
TO GIRLS:
if you're not dominant person most probably your boyfriend would leave you because Boys don't want or like things which they get easily so be a Dominant person but please Don't be too much dominating! Give them little hints and keep him close to your heart so that he can understand your feelings.
TO BOYS :
if you're a dominant person in the relationship, dont treat her badly. She puts her complete trust & Faith in you and if you are breaking that trust you'll lose her and trust me you'll never ever find someone like her again.
I know Ignoring that one person who means world to you is pretty hard but sometimes its best for both of you to keep your real love one with you for the rest of your life.
Last but not the least whatever you do but
"DON'T LOSE YOUR SELF RESPECT"
for anyone because once your self respect is gone, Nobody will respect you, Not even you.
You would never respect yourself for losing your self respect for the wrong person.
"If someone really loves you, they would never ever do something stupid which makes you sad or makes you cry"
Love is beautiful but Don't waste your emotions for the wrong person.
One love & lots of respect
Raghu KaaNDi Anand
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