Friday, 9 May 2014

KaaNDi - Chetan Bhagats "Rule of Ignorance"

If you already have read "2 states" by chetan Bhagat then you already know about the "Rule of ignorance" & if not so today I'm gonna teach you the rule & how to apply that in the real life.

Rule :
Find a girl you like & become  the most important part of her life and then leave her alone so that she comes back to you searching for her own Happiness.

Follow the below points for the Rule.

1. Find a girl you love.

2. Start casual Chats Like Hi, Hello, How are you?, hows your day?, whats new with life?.

NOTE: Don't be a jerk when you talk to her.
she must believe in you that you're a genuine guy so that she can share her feelings with you.

3. Exchange numbers : Never ever you ask her number at the first place or Directly.
You need to create you presence, your importants so that she ask for your number or your help to complete her work or anything important.

Example : if she has some important work to do, in which only you can help, she would ask you if is it possible that you can give her some of your valuable time on which you would say "actually i'm busy right now but definitely I would love to help you so lets do one thing let me call you once i'm done with my work and after that we will work on your project."
She would say "but I think you dont have my number" on which you handover a pen & a paper to her and let her write her own number by her own.

NOTE: This is just one idea, my personal suggestions would be, Be creative and try to form your own scenario according to the situation.

4. BE THERE FOR EVERYTHING :

Once you have her number and you already helped her in her project, now its time to show that you're the best guy in this world.

Don't call her directly after having her number, you wait another three days to make first call but please don't call her all the time, just be cool and play safe.

4.1 Starts with small text as a friend.

4.2 share your day to day activities and ask her about her day

4.3 start emotional drive like if she's sad, be there to cheer her up, be there for her all the big moments like birth of a child in her family, her family issues, her office issue, her ex issue, be there in her happy moment and be there in her sad moments by doing all these stuff trust me you'll become one of the most important part in her life.

5. Stop every thing :

Once you realize that she can not stay one day without talking to you just stop talking to her,

she will text you, dont revert.

she'll call you, don't pick.

6. She Goes Nuts

Once you stop talking to her this will drive her crazy. Why the hell you're not talking to her and she would talk to her best buddies about you, who would give her their suggestions to confront with you in person or on call.

7. She Goes Nuts completely

8. Girl in the Nest!

She comes to you to confront the matter and boom!!! there you go.
You tell her that you love her and all the emotions/feelings that you have for her.

NOTE : for REFERENCE you can read the sample dialogue from the novel or from the movie based on the novel " 2 States"

*Be convincing otherwise you'll lose her, either she'll say "Yes, I love you too" or she ask you for a little time and in this time she'll think about everything that you did for her, she'll miss you like hell and she would realize that you're the one she's been waiting for and  this will force her to confront her love for you and she'll give you a call to give you the confirmation about your new relationship.

Final step : Nothing kido, Go enjoy with your new girlfriend.

Final Note:

This Rule is 100% working but weather it will work in your case or not, it depends on your judgment on her emotions like you must know what is the right time to stop talking.
In case if you stop talking without becoming the important part of her life she will not even realize that you've been missing from her life.

Plus you need to give a lots of time to apply this rule completely

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KaaNDi

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