KaaNDi - ln loving memories of Superstar Rajesh Khanna

In todays blog i want to talk about kaka only. In todays time we have so many actors in bollywood who have earned respect and huge fan following through their talent but still there is no one like Rajesh khanna. Fans were and still are, crazy about him. It was my bad luck that after my birth kaka stoped doing films but still i always admire him as a master, as an idol. I mean there was something different about him. The way he moves his hand while delivering a dialogue, the way he walk, talk and smoke cigarette. I just like everything about him.

Whenever he enters in a scene(in any movie), my blood circulation increases, I feel motivated.

No matter whatever i say here but i still feel incomplete because no matter how much I try to explain my emotion, my love for kaka I would not be able to write it down. There is no word, no sentence in any language to express my love for him.

Although he did some limited films in industry but every time he tried to give something new to his fans and like in his films he made it big.

And as he said in his movie anand

"Babu mosai zindagi badi honi chahiye ... lambi nahin!"

so before i end this blog, i want to share 3 things with you.

1. A blog link with you from where you can read more about kaka.

2. A small article from times of India about kaka.

3. And some legendary pictures of kaka.

You can find all the three things below.

Blog : rajeshkhannafanclub.blogspot.in/2009_01_01_archive.html?m=1

Article from TOI :
Mr Khanna was the top actor in Bollywood during the
Seventies and early Eighties, and is considered to be it's
first real superstar. He was the star of romantic
comedies and dramas such as Anand, Aradhana and Kati
Patanag . He won three Filmfare awards in his long
career. Mr Khanna also held a Lok Sabha seat as a
Congressman from 1992-1996. A host of politicians,
including Prime Minister Manmohan Singh, joined
Bollywood celebrities in expressing their grief over Mr
Khanna's death.

KaaNDi - RPVV lajpat Nagar | Kaandi Boy's | Story of my school life in form of Poem/lyrics

As most of you already know that in school time I had a gang with the Name "Kaandi boys".
Together we use to a lot of crazy stuff with a lot of planing so that no one can caught us red handed however later on everybody moved on with their lifes and i kept the name with me.

so in my earlier days when I started recording I wrote few lines for my friends although it was a song but because some people thought that the song is a diss/insult to them so I had to delete the track from internet.

I was so depressed at that time that I deleted all the tracks, all the files but I don't how but today I find all the files in my secret folder ( if you know what i mean) so I thought let me blog about it and share the lyrics with you guys. I Hope you would like it!

This song include all the major incidents that happened in the past while we were studying in "Rajkiya Pratibha Vikas Vidhiyala"
Also I'd like to mentione that these lines are lite hearted punchlines and didn't mean to hurt anybody's emotion.

Lyrics - Kaandi Boys
Written & Performed - Raghu Anand
Released - 2010

Hum Aaye Hai Yahaan Kaand Karne, Nahi kisi ko hum Badnam Karne
Hum Jo Karte hai Bhale ke Liye Par Na hota tha Bhala Hum Badnam Hote Hai.
Log hume Kehte Hai Nikama - Nakara, Jaise Hume Hi unki Jindegi ko Bigada
Ye Duniya Hai Zalimo Ka Akhada, Aur raaj is duniya pe Hai Humara.

School se trophy Prashant ne Churai.
Anshuman ko Pakadne police thi aai.
Kalra-Ashish Hai jaise Bhai-Bhai,
Bhaskar aur Neeraj ki Kabhi Hui Na Ladai.
Anshu ne Neha Sharma patai,
Ekta ko soch ke Raman ne phad di Razai
Aaksh Srivastav hai mera cool bhai har exam mein usne meri naiya bachai
Amit-Anil hai kaminey chor, Chamcha giri mein nahi inka jod
Chanchal chauhan hai humari special guest, special treatment se ye hoti hai impress.
ab aai hai yaaro meri bari, mujh ko nahi aati ye duniya dari.
Hussno ka hu Main pujari, main nahi koi balbharmchari.
Khelta hu main shabdo ke sath khel, dhoondh ke dekh lo, na milega mujh sa male
4 saal main hila di thi humne pratibha sari, aur ab aai hai Ankur-Pawan ki Bari

Mil ke Hila Denge Hum Ye Duniya Sari, Par Abhi ke liye itna kaafi hai.
karni hai hume abhi bhut taiyari.

Duniya maane humko khash, aana chahe sab humare pass
duniya ki hai hum first choice. Hum kaun hai ?
Hum Hai KaaNDi Boys.

-
KaaNDi

KaaNDi - Chetan Bhagats "Rule of Ignorance"

If you already have read "2 states" by chetan Bhagat then you already know about the "Rule of ignorance" & if not so today I'm gonna teach you the rule & how to apply that in the real life.

Rule :
Find a girl you like & become  the most important part of her life and then leave her alone so that she comes back to you searching for her own Happiness.

Follow the below points for the Rule.

1. Find a girl you love.

2. Start casual Chats Like Hi, Hello, How are you?, hows your day?, whats new with life?.

NOTE: Don't be a jerk when you talk to her.
she must believe in you that you're a genuine guy so that she can share her feelings with you.

3. Exchange numbers : Never ever you ask her number at the first place or Directly.
You need to create you presence, your importants so that she ask for your number or your help to complete her work or anything important.

Example : if she has some important work to do, in which only you can help, she would ask you if is it possible that you can give her some of your valuable time on which you would say "actually i'm busy right now but definitely I would love to help you so lets do one thing let me call you once i'm done with my work and after that we will work on your project."
She would say "but I think you dont have my number" on which you handover a pen & a paper to her and let her write her own number by her own.

NOTE: This is just one idea, my personal suggestions would be, Be creative and try to form your own scenario according to the situation.

4. BE THERE FOR EVERYTHING :

Once you have her number and you already helped her in her project, now its time to show that you're the best guy in this world.

Don't call her directly after having her number, you wait another three days to make first call but please don't call her all the time, just be cool and play safe.

4.1 Starts with small text as a friend.

4.2 share your day to day activities and ask her about her day

4.3 start emotional drive like if she's sad, be there to cheer her up, be there for her all the big moments like birth of a child in her family, her family issues, her office issue, her ex issue, be there in her happy moment and be there in her sad moments by doing all these stuff trust me you'll become one of the most important part in her life.

5. Stop every thing :

Once you realize that she can not stay one day without talking to you just stop talking to her,

she will text you, dont revert.

she'll call you, don't pick.

6. She Goes Nuts

Once you stop talking to her this will drive her crazy. Why the hell you're not talking to her and she would talk to her best buddies about you, who would give her their suggestions to confront with you in person or on call.

7. She Goes Nuts completely

8. Girl in the Nest!

She comes to you to confront the matter and boom!!! there you go.
You tell her that you love her and all the emotions/feelings that you have for her.

NOTE : for REFERENCE you can read the sample dialogue from the novel or from the movie based on the novel " 2 States"

*Be convincing otherwise you'll lose her, either she'll say "Yes, I love you too" or she ask you for a little time and in this time she'll think about everything that you did for her, she'll miss you like hell and she would realize that you're the one she's been waiting for and  this will force her to confront her love for you and she'll give you a call to give you the confirmation about your new relationship.

Final step : Nothing kido, Go enjoy with your new girlfriend.

Final Note:

This Rule is 100% working but weather it will work in your case or not, it depends on your judgment on her emotions like you must know what is the right time to stop talking.
In case if you stop talking without becoming the important part of her life she will not even realize that you've been missing from her life.

Plus you need to give a lots of time to apply this rule completely

-
KaaNDi

Relationship Guide - Chetan Bhagat's Rule of Ignorance

Okay Pep! Lets Talk.
Is there anyone in your life who makes you feel special?

If you do have someone like that then feel special but What if suddenly that one person start's ignoring you without any cause then what?

No text, No call, Nothing.

How you feel about that? Its horrifying, Right?

Wrong!!!!

You kids has been played by a person who believes in psychology & Kids, trust me usually people breakdown.
once something like this happens in life and People  starts crying or starts thinking, whats wrong they have done that the one of most important person in their life starts ignoring Them without a cause.

You try to contact that person but they would not return your contacts.
You start going in depression and starts thinking how can you get that person back in your life.

For example as a kid if you like a teddy bear that you have and you consider that teddy as your best buddy that teddy makes you feel special but suddenly due to some reason your parents took that teddy from you so what happen next, you start to plan how can you get that teddy back. Its not like you don't have other toys or you're in love with your teddy, You're habitual to that teddy, like a smoker is habitual to cigarettes.

Here my point is

"do you really need that teddy to feel special?."

Simple and real answer to the above question is NO, you don't want or need a teddy to feel special. You are special and same thing goes with "Chetan Bhagats Rule of ignorance"

first someone would make you feel special and suddenly they go away from your life to generate a necessity that you need them around, you need them again to feel special, You want them so badly that you do anything.

You'd cry, you'd beg & you'll lose all of your "SELF RESPECT"
You'd be a changed person but here is the million dollar question

"is it really worthy to lose all of your self respect & everything just for one person?."

Who really don't care about your tears or about you!

there are so many other beautiful people in your life for whom you're so much special and to make you happy they'll do anything like your family, your Friends, Your Part time lovers who have crush on you.

So Ladies & Gentleman incase if you face something like this in future here is the CRACK of this solution:

"IGNORE THE PERSON WHO IGNORE'S YOU"

If you start ignoring the person, Who's ignoring you. it will force them to start thinking that you really don't care about their presence in your life which again according to human psychology will force them to talk to you!

Trust me! I'm 100% sure they'll be back to talk to you with the most stupid question "why are you not talking to me?"

In any relationship one person dominate and other just follow the rules.

TO GIRLS:
if you're not dominant person most probably your boyfriend would leave you because Boys don't want or like things which they get easily so be a Dominant person but please Don't be too much dominating! Give them little hints and keep him close to your heart so that he can understand your feelings.

TO BOYS :
if you're a dominant person in the relationship, dont treat her badly. She puts her complete trust & Faith in you and if you are breaking that trust you'll lose her and trust me you'll never ever find someone like her again.

I know Ignoring that one person who means world to you is pretty hard but sometimes its best for both of you to keep your real love one with you for the rest of your life.

Last but not the least whatever you do but

"DON'T LOSE YOUR SELF RESPECT"

for anyone because once your self respect is gone, Nobody will respect you, Not even you.
You would never respect yourself for losing your self respect for the wrong person.

"If someone really loves you, they would never ever do something stupid which makes you sad or makes you cry"

Love is beautiful but Don't waste your emotions for the wrong person.

One love & lots of respect
Raghu KaaNDi Anand